I pay attention to what sticks with me after an event is over. As I mentioned last week, I recently attended ICF’s Converge 2023 conference, and the core message from the session I attended on the final morning has resonated since: goal setting is often as motivational as goal achievement.
Continue reading “Personal and Organizational Bucket Lists”Thinning Seedlings
Have you ever planted beets?
I have, several times. They rarely thrive. Why? Because I can’t bear to thin out the seedlings as dramatically as the seed package says I should. I’m supposed to pull out more than half of my perfectly healthy sweet little plants and just toss them aside??! Too painful. So, I usually pull out a few, and hope for the best. The result? Crowded beets. Delicious, but tiny. Quantity over quality.
Continue reading “Thinning Seedlings”Sit with it just a little longer
Where I live, we’re two weeks away from the start of school after summer vacation. I no longer have kids living at home, but this remains the season of new backpacks and fresh starts. It is a very in-between time, where I’m not yet willing to say summer is over, but a new season is definitely looming, and I want to be prepared. My heart aches and leaps for all the families who are anticipating the fall with that potent mixture of excitement and dread.
Continue reading “Sit with it just a little longer”Pattern Interruption
Most of us don’t relish getting interrupted. And we usually apologize if we do it to others.
But what about choosing an interruption? Or at least welcoming one when it comes?
That’s my invitation to you today.
What pattern could you intentionally interrupt? And what benefits might that decision bring your way?
Continue reading “Pattern Interruption”Safer Surprises
This is a story of two menus and two restaurant patrons.
The first menu consisted of three lunch selections, presented orally to the diners: “Meat, fish or vegetarian?”
The second menu also consisted of three lunch selections: “One course, three courses or six courses?”
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