Processing Disappointment

If you are brave enough often enough, you will know disappointment.” ~ Brené Brown

If you are a Canadian hockey player or fan, you are disappointed today. (And if you’re not, here’s what you need to know: the Canadian women’s and men’s hockey teams both lost in overtime to the US to win silver instead of gold medals at the Olympics. Both. Lost. In overtime. To the US. Thank you for your condolences.)

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The Agony of Defeat

I’ve tapped into a different kind of awe this week.

In my obsession with watching the Olympics, I’ve become fascinated by the near misses. By the skiers who must simply complete their run to win a medal, but who hit a gate or get going too fast to execute their final jump. Or the athletes who come in as world champions and leave without a medal.

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Awestruck

I had plans to write about something else today.

But we’re “in the bleak midwinter” where I live, and I thought maybe a quick pep talk might be in order.

I’ve written about awe in detail before — what it is, why it helps, where to find it — so today’s message is simply a reminder to look for it.

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Centralized Specificity

I have a love/hate relationship with centralization.

It’s a tension I see all the time. In federations, what is the optimal level of shared service to be provided by the national office to gain efficiencies, while still maintaining local personality and autonomy? In community development, where does it make sense to amalgamate back-office functions while maintaining specificity of neighbourhood or cultural preference? In philanthropy, granting committees would rather receive a single, coordinated funding proposal than a dozen similar, disjointed ones.

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