“It all feels like too much.”
When you find yourself thinking this, or bravely speaking it aloud, it can be hard to remember what levers you have available to pull to make things feel more manageable. There are multiple pathways to ease the pressure.
Continue reading “Five Ways to Take Some Pressure Off”I love puzzles. Logic problems, jigsaw puzzles, escape rooms — I’m in.
But my enjoyment of puzzles can lead me to treat some of life’s challenges as a puzzle when in fact they are not that kind of test. They do not have a right answer that is discoverable if I only look hard enough.
Continue reading “The Nature of the Challenge”I pay attention to what sticks with me after an event is over. As I mentioned last week, I recently attended ICF’s Converge 2023 conference, and the core message from the session I attended on the final morning has resonated since: goal setting is often as motivational as goal achievement.
Continue reading “Personal and Organizational Bucket Lists”Have you ever planted beets?
I have, several times. They rarely thrive. Why? Because I can’t bear to thin out the seedlings as dramatically as the seed package says I should. I’m supposed to pull out more than half of my perfectly healthy sweet little plants and just toss them aside??! Too painful. So, I usually pull out a few, and hope for the best. The result? Crowded beets. Delicious, but tiny. Quantity over quality.
Continue reading “Thinning Seedlings”Where I live, we’re two weeks away from the start of school after summer vacation. I no longer have kids living at home, but this remains the season of new backpacks and fresh starts. It is a very in-between time, where I’m not yet willing to say summer is over, but a new season is definitely looming, and I want to be prepared. My heart aches and leaps for all the families who are anticipating the fall with that potent mixture of excitement and dread.
Continue reading “Sit with it just a little longer”
